I'd say once a week dates is a good start for 5 weeks. I'm not sure how I feel about him and have been pretty lukewarm about him. I work on weekends in the morning unfortunately, and we works a lot during the week so gets very tired in the evenings, but I have seen him during the week at times. It also helps that we live in neighboring cities, and I live really close to his workplace. Originally Posted by chicaboom.