I hope he has the same feelings for you as you do for him. You are an adult.
I'll be rethinking ever recommending it to friends as a guaranteed option. And while logically its not best to start a relationship this way The highschool girlfriend who makes you wait 6 months. As for feeling guilty, whether she goes through with the abortion or not, you'll always have residual guilt. She told her friends before she told me sort of pissed me off, I told her nicely that she should have told me immediately , which I guess makes sense in a girl sort of way.