Find your own rhythm as a couple He had been married so long, there were things about his lifestyle that I could tell were remnants of his married days.
CRISIS If I determine that the issue is a crisis that requires a response, I will apologize, explain the situation briefly, and respond with a text or phone call. With my first ex, For instance, the plans we had made to celebrate my birthday, or take romantic weekend away were cancelled or postponed or interfered with because the ex wife had her scheduling crisis or emergency at work or whatever. I still want all of these things, and I want to be helpful to a good man who wants these things as well! That should be his attitude. However, I will never use those same responsibilities to disrespect you or avoid my commitment and responsibilities to you.